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Strategic and business information on the Russian nuclear industry, research nuclear facilities and reactors. Contact information for major industrial and research facilities.
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The Italian Riviera may not have the recognition of its more famous French equivalent, but as Cadogan's unique guide will show, it has all the ingredients for a breathtaking trip. Explore one of nature's most perfect suntraps, with its Neopolitan climate, diverse landscape and dazzling coastline or drive north to discover the fabulous mountains of northwest Italy. In 2006, the Winter Olympics arrive in Turin and details of new facilities in place for the event are included in this new edition. The key cities range from the glamorous Portofino to the medieval Genoa, home of pesto, noble palaces, art-filled churches and Italy's busiest ports. Along the way, travelers can also take in stylish Santa Margherita, the museum of the Antartic, the biggest aquarium in Europe and charming hilltop towns. Written by expert writers on Italy, this guide brings them both the vibrant and the tranquil sides of the Riviera.
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So vividly written, it could be a cure for the winter blues.......2007-01-13
Reviewed by Olivera Baumgartner-Jackson for Reader Views (1/07)
Being back in USA after the fabulous European trip last month makes me feel vaguely blue and lethargic. It is difficult to muster much enthusiasm for anything when the weather is grey and drab; all that one wants to do is to get under the covers and dream of the Mediterranean sunshine. The good news is that I do believe I found the cure for the winter blahs. Dana Facaros and Michael Pauls have written a number of great travel books, and the last I've read, "Italian Riviera & Piedmont" is no exception.
Their writing summons images of sunny, wonderful Italy. If you open the book at random, the section you stumble upon is bound to make you smile. Let me give you an example: "Specialties of the Riviera, or the Marriage of Popeye and the Olive Oyl..." What a wonderful way to describe Ligurian cuisine. The authors go on and describe not only what kinds of foods are traditionally eaten in the area, but also why this is so. Some of the information will probably be quite surprising to most of the readers. If nothing else, it is bound to make you hungry!
As always, their writing is refreshing and wonderfully insightful, slightly irreverent, always informative and never boring. Take, for example, their brief introduction to the city of Turin: "Detroit without the degradation; the absolutist capital of the Savoys; a stately, masculine Baroque city of porticoed avenues and royal squares; the home of the Holy Shroud, of Juventus, vermouth, an endearingly outrageous Mole and the centre of the black magic in the Mediterranean - Piedmont's capital, Turin (Torino, pop. 900,000) is not your typical Italian city. Positioned midway between the pole and the equator, its winters are colder than Copenhagen's; its most renowned museum is Egyptian. It straddles the Po, so close to its source that the water is almost clean. One of its nicknames is Grissinopoli (`breadstickville')."
Such wonderfully colorful and imaginative descriptions do not take away from down to earth, practical information at all. Facaros and Pauls have obviously mastered the art of form not taking away from the function and function not taking away from the form. The guidebook covers all of the usual, necessary facets of travel. History, art, architecture, food and drink, practical advice on how to get ready for the trip and detailed descriptions of the areas encompassed in this book (Riviera di Ponente, Genoa, Riviera di Levante, Turin, Piedmont, Valle d'Aosta) are all very detailed and exceptionally useful. Even for such a relatively small area the authors included information on over 450 places to stay and over 400 places to eat and drink. The photography section conveys some of the intriguing beauty of the areas visited. Over 20 maps included in the book will prove extremely useful for the individual travelers for sure. They are detailed and very easy to read. At the end of the book authors included a short linguistic section with some useful words and phrases as well as a glossary. And if this book provokes a desire to know more about this particular part of the world, the authors also compiled a great list of suggested further reading.
I would highly recommend "Italian Riviera & Piedmont" to anybody who desires a deeper understanding of Italy, particularly the areas described within. As for myself, I will certainly look for more books written by this talented team.
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A comprehensive resource text, APA's Payroll Practice Fundamentals provides the basics for those new to payroll in an organized progression and in easily read text. Each chapter covers a specific aspect of payroll administration and includes review questions and a quiz. You will not find a more complete training text than this.
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Payroll Practice Fundamentals is ideal for those new to the payroll profession. Each chapter focuses on a specific aspect of payroll administration and includes review questions and quizzes. Each chapter reflects the latest payroll compliance changes. The text covers the content outline for the Fundamental Payroll Certification exam and includes a practice exam.
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Payroll Practice Fundamentals
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A comprehensive new resource text, APA's Payroll Practice Fundamentals provides the basics for those new to payroll in an organized progression and in easily read text. Each chapter covers a specific aspect of payroll administration and includes review questions and a quiz. You will not find a more complete training text than this.
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Complete.......2002-03-24
Just by looking at the outline I believe this book to be very comprehensive and valuable.
Learn Payroll Easily.......2000-10-26
This book taught me everything I needed to know about payroll!
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Richard Rowett: Thoroughbreds, Beagles, & the Civil War
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Penal Colony House, The: A Winter In Bungendore
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Insightful and humourous.......2005-09-07
A wonderful travelogue from inside a world we would think we know but with revelations. The sense of humour is both droll and acidic. The author becomes a representative of America in a difficult time. A fun and insightful read.
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Increasingly imaginative designs for all segments of a burgeoning recreation market are displayed in this wide-ranging report. Featuring the work of thirty-five of the finest architectural/design firms that specialize in these types of projects around the globe, the book includes hotels, spas, convention centers, theaters, retreats, resorts, time-shares, and restaurants. More than one hundred examples are reviewed in coverage that discusses lighting, furniture, and fixtures as well as structural aspects of each job.
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A Must for any foster parent.......2003-05-16
This book is short but too the point. How does it feel to be a foster child? How does it feel to loose your mother? How does it feel to be separated from your brothers and sisters? This books gives a clear insight of what its like. But most important it helps any new foster parent understand what behind the child. It helps you with things like how to welcome that new child with love and warmth. Helps to understand what and how to treat a child in the system according to their own indiviual needs. Gives great examples and suggestions.
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- A YOUnity Review : Through the Eyes of A Foster Child
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Through The Eyes of A Foster Child
Dahveed
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"An emotionally riveting look into the pain and alienation of foster children as they try to survive in a society that ignores and at times even rejects their very existence. Dahveed bravely gives voice to these children through the eyes of his own struggle to find his place in the world and the next." - Heather Mann, PhD "In poetry and prose, Dahveed tells how he has transformed the pain of rejection, abuse and racism into lessons of love, forgiveness and purpose. He uses his life and words not for pity, but to open our mind and hearts to compassionate action. Hear him." - Lissa Lazaro, LCSW "An amazing walk through the life of one man and the powerful impact that he has made, and continues to make, in this world. A story that makes you analyze life more optimistically. A brutal reality that teaches you to find positives in all that you have survived." - Shawna Bethel MA "Dahveed reveals his courageous personal journey of survival and triumph over experiences of childhood abuse and racism. His poetry in the form of a flowing stream of consciousness is optimistic. His life and work is guided by identification with Judaism which has improbably nurtured an entire nation for thousands of years despite multiple existential threats." - Jeffrey Max, M.D., Professor, Dept. of Psychiatry, University of California, San Diego "Human experiences expressed by an enlightened mind and soul in a manner so that everyone may relate - Feel the flow." - Pablo Montiel, BS "Emotionally moving, blatantly honest, inspiring truth . . . An incredibly poignant account of issues surrounding abuse, rejection, racism, hope, and faith . . . The poetry reflects the thoughts and feelings of one man's story in a stimulating and heartfelt way." - Gina Lucatuorto, MS
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I wanted more..........2006-09-02
Pros: From the title of the book and reading Dahveed's exceptional blogs on MySpace, I thought I was going to read a book about his upbringing and the trials and tribulations he went through as a foster child. But most of this book is talking about the overall perspective of a foster child and how foster parents should go about contacting organizations, treating the children fairly, and many of the issues that a young child endures when left alone. The page where Dahveed talked about a child being pulled from a home and wondering what he did wrong almost made me want to cry. Dahveed has an infectious way of keeping readers in tune with his story by telling them the reality of the matter, in regards to race, abandonment, molestation, love, and parenthood. I lost interest in poetry long ago, but his poem "Turn On and Tune In" made me remember why I used to like it so much. The photographs were fantastic and fit the book to a tea.
Cons: The writer gives us an overview of some of the things that happens to foster children, but I really want to hear more indepth views about HIM personally, considering the title gives readers a tease that it will. To put it plain, I was greedy and didn't get all the knowledge I wanted to know. There was a chapter on marriage that seemed out of place with the pattern of the rest of the book. Although accurate, I didn't understand why it was there. I wish this book would have gone on longer and more antecdotes would have been given about the analysis that the author draws in this book. If the contact information would've been an appendix and that same amount of pages used to tell his own background, I would've been that much more interested.
Although that is a con, it is a good con...because if Dahveed ever published anything else, I'd read it, hoping to know more about what I didn't get to see in the 70+ pages of this publication.
(RAW Rating: 4.5) -- Eye Opening.......2006-06-14
Davheed devoids himself of the bitterness and anger that so often travels with children exposed to the foster care system, and channels that energy into something positive. He shares his amazing walk through life during and after his tenure in the system. This is not a story, it is a journey of courage.
With poetry and prose he delivers an emotional look at the pain and alienation of foster children, and their efforts to survive in a society that ignores them and often rejects their existence. This is a poignant account of abuse, rejection, racism and atonement. And of Davheed's identification with Judasim which has been his life-line.
THROUGH THE EYES OF A FOSTER CHILD is blatantly honest, heart-felt and compassionate. This should prove to be a useful tool to all persons involved with childcare or childcare programs. This is an empathetic book that will open your eyes.
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A YOUnity Review : Through the Eyes of A Foster Child.......2005-08-23
"Through the Eyes of a Foster Child" written by Dahveed is a wonderful book. I have forwarded it to a friend of mine who works in foster care. I truly believe that all parents should be required to read this book so that they can realize that they are given the gift of a child and what that child
needs. My favorite poem in the book is "Mirror Image":
"One must find the beauty
Within oneself
Satisfied with oneself
Love thyself,
And
Understand thy self...
No matter what others may perceive
You are as beautiful
As
Beauty allows
One to be."
The photography speaks volumes in itself, and who better than Dahveed to take on this project of getting the world to recognize that right here in America there are children who need help.
Dahveed himself was part of the foster system and is now on the other side, trying to help youth,reaching back to the ones who are reaching out, letting the world know to be careful
and not give these precious youth to people who are neglectful and abusive.
As the mother of three, I read this book and it makes me see my children's outlook and more so through their eyes than mine. The way to help a traumatized child is with much love, patience and affection. Dahveed's book contains beautiful pictures that tell a story and be a book itself. I will always refer to his book and pass it on to my children when they are old enough to think about parenthood.
Reviewed by Kim Robinson -(A YOUnity Book Club Reviewer)-Author of Food For the Soul- Recipes From Around the World, The Roux of Gumbo ([...])
A necessary read for anyone who is caring for a child.......2005-07-23
I do believe that reading this book has made me rethink some of my views of raising my children. I have always considered myself a good mother and recently looked into fostering children and when I went to the class that the states offers some of the horrors that I heard were just appalling and I think that those people should never be given the gift of a child in their life.
Dahveed takes you to both sides in this book as he is a person who was a part of the system and is now trying to make a difference. I am forwarding this to social workers that I know. I think that it should be given to not only people who want to foster or adopt but to those who are natural parents also.
Dahveed keep doing what you do, it is going to make a difference in some childrens lives.
God bless you and
much love
Kim Robinson
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A personal memoir centered around the author's traumatic life as a foster child,
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Showman: The Life and Music of Perry George Lowery (American Made Music Series)
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A directory of 35,000 Alaska Businesses! In depth information on each listing. You can use our premier database to find new customers and grow your sales and profits. You can create your own direct mail campaigns. Our information is simply the best for telephone sales or research; we make millions of phone calls every year to verify our information. Our credit rating codes* can help you evaluate probable credit worthiness for small trade accounts, qualify prospects, and manage financial risk. You can analyze your competition, plan your next sales and marketing campaign, or establish new sales territories.
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The Limits of Hope: An Adoptive Mother's Story
Ann Kimble Loux
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pretty good read..its all about being honest .......2007-08-23
This book was very interesting. The author seems ot have a big heart, yet is very weeary about the girls she adopts. They came from a disturbing background. But sometimes love isn't enough. The trials and tribulations that this family went through ,according to the author, were tough. However, she is very honest and tells the story of how much she has tried to do all that she can to help these girls in their life.
It is a great read for those considering adoption or foster parenting.
accepting limits.......2004-09-02
In many ways the authors eperiences are scary in their simularity to mine. My wife and I adopted two little girls, age 4-5 at the time, from the county after taking months of parenting classes and being given access to all the information that the county had available.... Still we had no realistic idea of how difficult it was going to be and how radically our lives would change. It was like trying to heard cats, they were extreamly impulsive, rebellous and raged at us for everything wrong in their lives, often including physical abuse of us and our house. A few years later we had an unexpected biological child who is in most ways just the opposite of J n L and things really got lively, runnaway, theft, drug and alchol use. At about age 14 we borrowed enough to send the eldest from a mental hospital to a behavior modification program in Utah. She spent about 1.5 years there, it did not make her a "model Child" but did change the direction of her life. Upon her return she made a serious suicide attempt and my wife, declaring she had had enough, took the youngest child and left me with the two adoptive teenagers.
At about this time my mother in law loaned us a copy of "The Limits of Hope", it was a real eye opener for me because her eperiences were so simular to ours. I did not reach the conclusion that a group home would be better for them, we had tried that with the oldest, she just ran away at will from them like she did us, but it did help me to understand that it is not realistic to expect them to be like their younger sister and to try a different direction. I lifted the thousand and one rules, complete with rewards and punishments, that we had imposed in a failed attempt to provide "structure" and just settled for open communication and letting them suffer the consiaquences of their own actions. I have had to bail both of them out at one time or another, wound up home schooling them both but the anger level has gradually subsided as they learn to take charge of their own lives. The eldest is now a sophmore in college and the youngest.....I still have hope, limited of course.
So, while I reached some different conclusions than the author, the book came to me at a critical time in my life and helped me understand that I needed to see my adoptive children as they are, not as I/we wished them to be. And, it helped me admit to myself and them that I did feel differently about them than I do about their sister and give up the romatic notion that we can treat all of them the same and expect the same results.
Good book, and the author is nothing if not honest.......2004-02-09
The girls who were adopted were not yet 3 and 4 years old, so it is easy to see how optimistic the author was being to readily adopt them. I can't see how the mother giving up a career to sit at home with her kids would be any more helpful to these girls. (She had 3 biological children in the same age range who faired well with her working part time). If anything, it enlightens readers to just much the first few years of life can impact the character and psyche of a child. In this case, the differences between the biological children and the adopted girls were huge. However, in my personal experience, children being reared from birth by the same parents can also have have huge differences in their behaviors.
I feel that the author was just being brutally honest in her assessments of these two girls. I would recommend this book to anyone, but would hope it didn't dissuade anyone from pursuing adopting an older child. Just remember that, unlike many wards of the court who have physical limitations clearly outlined, some children have suffered abuse that may not be clear for months or even years. It is a commitment, to say the least. Also, the time frame is relevant. In current times, these children are studied and tested, and their histories are reported openly before adoption is considered. I know this, because I have looked into adopting an older child.
Read but don't think it has to be so for you.......2003-09-11
It is impossible not to be disturbed and deeply moved by the inescapable trauma the two abused girls caused the author's family (and the inescapable trauma the children had been exposed to prior to adoption). Those of us who have not experienced such a situation think it harsh for the author to challenge the notion that a stable home environment is always the best answer for abused or neglected children. Not having walked in the author's shoes, we may be quick to say that Ms. Loux's family wasn't the right family to cope with the two seemingly incorrigible girls. I am unwilling to make that judgment, but I do wonder whether Ms. Loux and her husband, who had full time careers, should have ventured into adopting older children who can be presumed to have suffered damage. The children must, in essence, have been raised by babysitters or other caretakers rather than by Ms. Loux. I am also wondering how much time Ms. Loux spent with her children's school teachers and whether there was adequate therapeutic intervention for the children and the family as a whole. All this would have required ongoing attention by Ms. Loux, and it is difficult to see whether a dual career family can meet the needs of abused children. Yet, I observed a neighbor who had adopted a seven-year old girl from a severely abusive home, and the adoptive parents did everything imaginable, including full-time care by the adoptive mother, to rescue this little girl. We tried to help too. Still, the girl went down an unstoppable path of self-destruction that included pregnancies, drug use, prostitution and ultimately lingering in prison with AIDS. This adoptive mother does not go so far as Ms. Loux in saying that 'her daughters have earned respect for their lifestyles and choices...She (Margey) keeps all the money she makes from prostitution to buy drugs.' To respect this life style must surely be the limits of hope for this adoptive couple. It is sad all the way around, but this book should not keep other prospective parents from adopting older children. Each situation is different.
Gisela Gasper Fitzgerald, ADOPTION: An Open, Semi-Open or Closed Practice?
An important perspective, yet it should not be generalized.......2000-11-04
Ann Kimble Loux's book, The Limits of Hope, is the story of her adoption of two girls, ages three and four, after she and her husband had had three biological children. It will no doubt be read by many people in many different ways. Some will come away with a sense of outrage at a system that would place children with a traumatic history with a family and fail to convey to them any of that history. Some will be outraged at the lack of preparation the family had prior to taking on the challenge of raising two such damaged children. Some will be shocked at the apparent inability of an upper middle-class family, with highly educated parents, to get access to appropriate information and services they needed for their children. Yet others will be heartened to read of a family that stuck with their difficult children, when so many such adoptions are disrupted (i.e., the adoption fails and the child is back in "the system").
At the time when Ms. Loux adopted her daughters, it was common thought that even children with traumatic histories would be fine as long as they were given some stability and love. It was also common practice not to disclose to the adopting family any confidential information about the children's prior life. This has changed. We now know that early childhood trauma is not something that will just heal itself (for most children), and prior to the adoption of older children, comprehensive information about their backgrounds and histories is given to the adoptive family. However, much of what Ms. Loux has to say about her experience is still relevant. More and more, older and older children are being placed with families for adoption. It can be a lifeline for those children - but the families need to understand what they are undertaking. Ms. Loux seems to believe that these children probably cannot be raised in families, because she views her children's adoption as, essentially, a failure. While her assessment of her family's experience is no doubt accurate, I would take issue with generalizing it to the entire population of hurt children who are finding loving, permanent families.
There is practically no discussion in the book about how Ms. Loux dealt with the schools - no individual education plan meetings mentioned, no special education. There is little mention of therapeutic services for the children or the family as a whole. These are serious omissions, either in the book or in the provision of care to the girls. Clearly, children with as many problems as these children had needed therapeutic intervention and special education services. If the omission is in the book, it is a shame, because information on dealing with these service providers is invaluable for parents with special needs children (and virtually all older adopted children have special needs). If the omission is in the care, it is disturbing: Ms. Loux and her husband were both educators, and her brother is a psychiatrist. It was difficult to understand, while reading the book, why Ms. Loux was not getting more, and earlier, help from her brother, and why the family was not receiving more services.
The tone of the book was relentlessly despairing. I could not help but wonder whether there was no joy in the family's life. Was the negativity the result of the difficulties, did it contribute to it, or was it part of a spiral over which no one was able to gain control? I also had no sense of how the presence of the adopted children affected the biological children, or the parents as a couple, and those are things that would have been of great interest to readers. As a parent of one child adopted "through the system" and two biological children, I wanted to read about the ways the adopted and biological children affected each other - both good and bad. Another issue which would have been important to address is that of the dual career family. Both Ms. Loux and her husband had full time careers. It is possible that a dual career family cannot meet the needs of children who are suffering the effects of early childhood trauma. It may be that someone needs to be more available: both to the children on a day-to-day basis, and to the schools, the therapists, and when necessary, hospitals and partial hospitalization programs.
For families who are considering adopting an older child, or who have already done so, this book is important in that it points out, with brutal clarity, the difficulties that they may face. What is missing is the positive aspects of such adoption: despite the extraordinary difficulty of raising such children, there are the moments of joy, of accomplishment, of triumph. While Ms. Loux at times bemoans her inability to have adjusted her hopes and expectations to the reality of who her children were, she does not seem, even now, to have come to peace with the fact that their dreams are not the same as her dreams for them. All parents have to come to terms with that; even more so adoptive parents of older children. Prospective adoptive families need to hear: "Your life will change in ways you cannot imagine. You must think carefully about your biological children and how this will affect them. But if you hang in there with your child, and can be proud of his/her victories, however small, because they are his/hers, if you can focus on your child and his/her needs and wants, you may save a life, and enrich your own." Ms. Loux has made it clear, however, that if people think that they can adopt children whose early lives have been traumatic and incorporate them into a "normal" upper middle-class home with little upheaval, they are setting up everyone - the parents, the families, and the children - for a terrible fall.
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